PARENTING PLANS
Centred around your child’s best interests
When a relationship between parents breaks down, whether you were married or not, it can be tough to figure out how to co-parent going forward. Parenting plan mediation helps you navigate all those tricky decisions relating to your child’s care. Research shows that children of high-conflict divorce are at an increased risk for psychological and emotional problems; a parenting plan can lower conflict and reduce these risks.
In South Africa, a parenting plan is a requirement of family law, with parenting plans covered under sections 33 to 35 of the Children’s Act.
The Importance of A Parenting Plan:
Clear Guidelines
A parenting plan outlines each parent’s responsibilities.
- This helps to avoid confusion and conflict.
- Ensures both parents are aware of their responsibilities.
- Helps prevent parental alienation.
Provides Stability
And routine in your child’s life.
- Clear schedule for time spent with each parent.
- Supports your child’s social-emotional development.
- Crucial in the early stages of divorce when children feel anxious or uncertain.
Saves Time & Money
Parenting plan mediation is quicker, more cost-effective and child-friendly.
- Cases in the Children’s Court or High Court can take a long time to resolve, causing more stress for your child.
- Litigation costs relating to children’s matters can easily reach upwards of R100 000.
Child’s Best Interests
Parenting plan mediation ensures consideration of the best interests of the child, which is crucial.
- The child’s best interests are guided by the Children’s Act.
- Parenting plans ensure your child’s needs are met.
- Prevents children from being caught in the middle of disputes.
Parenting Plan Mediation
A parenting plan is formulated through parenting plan mediation, a process that considers your child’s age, maturity, developmental stage, and the child’s best interests under the Children’s Act.
A mediator guides you through the decision-making on where your child will live, schooling, healthcare, financial support, day-to-day routines, and time with each parent. It’s a space that encourages honest communication and helps rebuild trust.
To make the plan easier to enforce if needed, it can be registered with the Office of the Family Advocate or made an order of the court.
Due to the nature of family life and the evolving needs of children, regular review and adjustment of your plan is essential to adapt to your child’s developmental needs and changing circumstances.